I'd like to say that whatever/whoever you end up identifying as, I'll support you fully.

Sorry I don't have much more to say...I just can't seem to think tonight, or something.
Also, may I refer you to jewelfox.dreamwidth.org? Jewelfox is also an otherkin. She writes about various things, many of them interesting, some of them a bit morbid, but she has a very good blog. You might find it interesting, I hope.